The Woman in Me By Britney Spears
Gallery Books
ISBN: 978-1668009048
288pp.

Having grown up listening to a lot of Britney Spears, the singer had become as big a part of my growing up days of the late 1990s and early 2000s, as of the pop culture sphere. I had for long held the belief that, if she were ever to come out with a book, it would become a part of my bookshelf.

At the time, it felt like she had everything — a remarkable voice, unwavering confidence and the admiration of her countless fans. However, in hindsight, it becomes evident that it was all an illusion. This sentiment intensified particularly after observing her vicious battle to break free from the much-talked-about conservatorship imposed by her father.

Her memoir, The Woman in Me, is, not surprisingly, a courageous and profoundly touching narrative of the pop star, with a deep dive into the themes of freedom, stardom, parenthood, resilience, belief and optimism.

It begins with Britney’s unusual childhood and her early years. Immediately evident is the flawed nature of her parents, as depicted through her recollections. She narrates accounts of her

The pop singer’s memoir is a moving story of survival, fame, love, loss and hope and yet seems to gloss over some important aspects of her journey

father being an alcoholic, unable to sustain employment or manage household expenses during her formative years.

Britney’s “wonderful” mother also accompanied her for drinks when she was merely 13 years old. At that tender age, her mother allowed her to drive. Due to financial struggles, they steered Britney into the entertainment industry, aiming for her to support household expenses.

Britney Spears performing in Los Angeles in 2016 | AFP
Britney Spears performing in Los Angeles in 2016 | AFP

The 288 pages-long memoir relays the shaky relationships she forged with the toxic men in her life. Along with the details of her career and her conservatorship woes, Britney discloses that she underwent an abortion with her former partner Justin Timberlake. She asserts Timberlake’s infidelity with undisclosed public figures.

In other sections, Britney contemplates her journey in acting, spanning her involvement in Crossroads to the regret of losing the opportunity for the main role in The Notebook, which Rachel McAdams eventually secured. Her career seems to be the only refuge from her dysfunctional family and home life. There, too, she didn’t find solace, however. After going through the tumultuous abortion, she shaved her head in 2007, to counter the sexualised object of fantasy she was portrayed as in the media.

When her family dragged her into a conservatorship, she put up with it as it allowed her to stay in touch with her sons. Through this contract, her family could control nearly everything about her — from her clothes and phone to curfew times and weekly allowances. Add to that the microscopic eye with which the paparazzi watched and followed her.

The horrifying story of her two-month rehab spell was nothing short of a true American horror story, until she managed to navigate herself through the #FreeBritney movement that freed her from the clutches of the conservatorship.

With nothing remotely related to fun BTS (‘Behind the Scenes’) studio tales and starry stories, The Woman in Me is largely focused on “freedom” of the Western society, the ‘free’ woman of American culture and everything that is patriarchy and exploitation. Britney questions why she was labelled as “crazy”, “a disgrace” or “dangerous”, merely because she wore cropped tops, was found drunk in a bar or shaved her head publicly.

Feeling the inclination to grant a five-star rating is almost reflexive, considering the immense challenges Britney faced in life. It’s nearly inconceivable how someone could endure what she did. However, it’s essential to clarify: my rating is not an evaluation of her life or her worth. When assessing a memoir, it is important to focus solely on the quality of the book itself, setting aside any judgement of the individual’s personal journey or value.

Even when assisted by a ghostwriter, this book lacks cohesion. It resembles the narrative of a young girl’s

diary, deficient in the emotional depth and self-reflection typically found in memoirs. The writing style appears simplistic and disjointed, often seeming like a deliberate attempt to criticise certain individuals.

Admittedly, these individuals warranted criticism, but the underlying issue remains unchanged. Certain parts of the narrative seem absent or merely skim the surface. It fails to offer readers a genuine understanding of the authentic Britney.

While the book does provide some insights, it prompts more questions

than it answers. I wished for more insight into her journey of stardom, as this aspect received minimal attention. Britney’s real-life tale is undeniably inspiring, highlighting her bravery, fortitude and resilience.

Her newfound freedom brings joy, yet this book feels ill-timed. Perhaps if penned after a considerable time away from her trauma, allowing for healing, it might have carried more weight. However, it seems to portray the messy middle of trauma — a narrative some seek but which, in this case, leaves me wanting more.

The reviewer is a content lead at an agency. She can be reached at sara.amj@hotmail.co.uk

Published in Dawn, The Business and Finance Weekly, January 7th, 2024

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