How the media delighted in the Imran-Reham split
Reham Khan and Imran Khan have decided to part ways. And it seems, we too, have decided to part ways with sanity in the wake of their decision.
It is fair to argue that a political figure does not have a personal or private life, but even so, the media and public response to the matter has been quite despicable.
The divorce came second-by-second, with flashing red tickers on TV channels that religiously engaged in seeking comments on the divorce from all and sundry; trying to claw out and probe into the reasons behind the separation; endlessly speculating and spouting sensationalism.
Relentlessly screaming:
“Second time for Imran Khan, is he on a hat-rick?”
“Reham Khan is a MI6 agent!”
TV producers across the media graced us with trashy animation over slideshows of Imran Khan and Reham Khan’s pictures, complete with lightning cracks between each photo and Bollywood scores bursting behind:
Bhula dena mujhe, Hai alvida tujhe, Tujhe jeena hai mere bina, Safar yeh tera, yeh raasta tera, Tujhe jeena hai.. mere bina.
And of course, how could a glorious opportunity for hating on a woman be missed?
As Faiza S. Khan (@BhopalHouse) neatly puts it:
Social media filled with endless commentary on the matter, as if the divorce could have repercussions for Pakistan’s economy, foreign relations, domestic affairs or the lives of its 200 million people...because of course, Pakistan has no other issues to deal with.
It's not like this is a country where an earthquake has just killed hundreds; where hundreds of children are systematically sexually abused for years in a village (does anyone remember that?).
This isn’t a country like that.
So, the public response to this private matter between a couple has everyone involved, everyone concerned, and everyone ready to offer an opinion.
I do wonder what the thousands of those affected by the earthquake are thinking as they watch this circus play out on TV.
The writer is an undergraduate student at LUMS, writing about socio-political affairs on her blog hafsakhawaja.wordpress.com.
She tweets @Hafsa_Khawaja
The views expressed by this writer and commenters below do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of the Dawn Media Group.
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Only if we had that little modicum of decency.....
It is a private matter. Please respect their privacy.
If it is possible for Pakistanis, we should all strive to focus our energies on top priorities.
Very nice article. Many of the TV anchors simply indulged in sensationalism. What a despicable behavior! All of us, including the media persons, need to respect their privacy and personal life.
You still could not resist blaming IK by mentioning the tweet by Faiza Khan.
Every party has its trolls. You cant hold IK responsible for what millions tweet. He has never engaged in character assassination. People say he is personal with Sharifs. Not so. Calling Sharifs corrupt is not personal, making fun of their attributes or physique is.
Love you take on this. In Pakistan, media is over sensational, though, it is supposed to relay facts than sensationalism! Air time goes to personal matters in depth and the producers are still happy with it?
You have penned it perfectly !
Good thoughts.
Splits happen all the time in every society. Why should this be a major event for everyone to drivel about?
Very good article. If only sense would prevail...
When you are a politician, then your personal life is a public. Having said that, the media has exploited the event to increase their ratings which is quite deplorable.
Exactly, this is their private matter and none of our business.
If people can be happily married, they can also be happily divorced. :)
The moral dilemma in Pakistani society is to understand which issues are personal and private for celebrities or which are substantive.
very well said.
Stop this personal matter nonsense. People look up to him for guidance. They are crazy about him. I wonder what kind of message he is sending to the kids. If you can reconcile differences, split up.
Marriage is a not a easy proposition and it is always hanging by the thread for many and in that situation you just keep face.
What Imran and Reham have done is unfortunate and its ramifications may be far reaching.
A very good write-up indeed.
its the society of spectacle in general its not us diseased pakistanis - its the way attention spans are organized and managed in pomo times -
Why wasn't there hue when Reham became Pakistan's bhabi? Why did IK then say "Can't wait to share the good news with Pakistan" when he got married? Cause wedding isn't personal but divorce is? It would be a very stupid assumption for anyone who is up there in IK's place that his/her life would/should be personal. And this isn't a "Pakistani" phenomenon at all. Happens all over the world. Doesn't Hilary still get questioned about her Husband's character? When she doesn't even have anything to do with it. Didnt't Bill Clinton himself get questioned, and didn't his fame decline exponentially after his "personal endeavors"?
Not saying there's anything wrong with getting divorced, but I fail to understand the annoyance of both IK and his supporters over this
For heavens sake, there is nothing to be delighted about. The woman was too ambitious but Imran has his own ambitions, end of the story.
Its true that its a private matter and one should respect it.Hope so imran also learns a lesson and starts respecting others and pti supporters should have some decency too.The way imran had set a trend of embarrasing and breaching everyones privacy it should stop.its just back firing on imran now.
@Najam
Agree with you 100%. Your or my marriage is a personal matter.
The marriage (and now divorce) of Imran and Reham is not.
Why?
Because when most people get married, they don't invite/allow journalists to photograph their wedding and plaster it across all media outlets.
So if you can allow that to happen - you cannot treat the divorce as personal.
That is not the media being sensationalist - that's just the way all media works globally.
As they say, you can't have your cake and eat it.
And let's face it - sadly this union was doomed from the beginning.
She wanted to use IK as a springboard to further her political ambitions.
He wanted to show that he was a statesman - with a wife and family at home.
What ever happened to decency in our culture where once personal affairs were kept personal. TV media needs to stay away from them and let them be. It's not a circus show for God's sake
@Hafsa_Khawaja pain,suffering & lose only matters when it hits us. It's gossip time when we watch others going through with it #ImranReham-split
Amazing to note how everything is someone else's fault.
If we as a society do not seek sensationalism, then it is a simple matter of self-dignity that you stop watching this nonsense. In other words, if you think you deserve better, stop yourself from being subjected to such low-level tv programming by switching the channels. If all of them are showing the same 'lightning bolts with background music from bollywood', turn the tv off and take a walk.
Heck, some electricity would be saved too.
Well if we remember correctly 10 months ago we the public had to fathom day and night news about Banigala, IK and Reham , what they are eating wearing etc etc. The couple did not mind the privacy mater they loved being on the front pages , interviews 24/7 and all the hoopla around them . So when the curtain falls why all off sudden it has beome a very private issue and their privacy shoud be respected.
These public figures survive and rise in life on commoners and media adulation. They have no right to cry foul when the chips are down !!
@Bilal The most dignified person in all this is Nawaz Sharif who has garnered much respect. He has not commented on Imran Khan's personal business and has told his party members to not comment either because it is personal. In the last two years, I have heard all kinds of personal attacks by Imran Khan against Nawaz Sharif but Nawaz will not engage in this type of gutter talk. I now have great admiration for Nawaz Sharif now. By the way, this type of divorce of a prominent leader would be tabloid talk anywhere in the world, not just Pakistan. That's what happens to any public figure.
No, it is not a private matter. Anything called a private matter but associated with a public personality like IK, is public matter. This is what the US Supreme Court has also decided. IK is not a private person. He sleeps, walks, eats, lectures in public all the time. His marriage, and its associated rituals were performed in public. As such, we the ordinary folks has "right to know" everything about this public personality. Yet, having written all these things, I am still shocked about this separation.
Imran was called a Great Son of Pakistan when he was playing cricket and winning the World Cup. It is the news-paper and TV journalists were responsible for making a villain. It is a shame. Mr.Imran Khan is the famous son of Pakistan, and his personal matter should not be X-rayed.
The media is made up of all shades and colors.........and there was nothing out of the ordinary in their behavior.......in high profile cases all over the world the media behaves sometimes better and sometimes even worse.
Public figures do not remain personal life Media rightfully or wrongly take the pleasure in such hot news
The author certainly has nailed it. A good article. The channels seem to have lost it. How insensitive can they get in their mad dash for ratings.
Our political leaders namely Nawaz Sharif,Zardari, Maulana Fazal ur Rehman and Altaf Bhai have proved to be statesman as they all declared that this is personal matter and this divorce must not be discussed by their party leaders.
Imran Khan and Reham Khan should have known this was going to happen. I saw the news in the elevator of an average building in a sub-urban location (with mostly white population). Just goes to show how popular Imran Khan is. I hope that the 2 can reconcile knowing that their lives will be worse being divorced.
The man who is unable to make good decisions in his personal life cannot be expected to make any good decisions for the nation. Character and judgement are 2 key ingredients in a person who can be entrusted to lead. Good bye Imran Khan.
Lets behave like civilized people and let the divorced couple find peace and happiness to sort out their lives. My prayers and good wishes to both.
@Najam Oh well, don't look up to him. Don't worry about other kids taking message from it. Take it as a news and move on. Everything will be normal in your life. 'People in Pakistan and the perennial problem of interference in others private matters'. Whether you keep faith in marriage 'hanging by a thread' or not, it should be a personal choice not a communal matter. Though, I agree with your take on Media but don't agree one bit with your reasoning given for it. Imran Khan should face wrath now just like he's been doing mudslinging in others' life. He should be ready to face the music now.
Imran Khan is not an ordinary individual His life ambitions are way over his personal goals. That's how he has lived his life, from youth till NOW.
Merciless people, what can you expect.
@Omar Dear Omer, I know such things happens. All she wanted to do is help him. What's wrong in it? He is saying women shall not help or stay at home?
Imran need to move slowly with consolation of religious good scholars, than he will succeed.
PTI itself set a bad tradition by prying into private lives of people. Just recall what PTI trolls said about Maryam Nawaz `elopement'.
Pakistan media is acting like Indian media .. Such nonsense needs to stop.
Proud of you today, Nawaz Sharif, just read your statement so gracious in directing party workers not to mud sling on Imran-Reham divorce, respecting their privacy. But Danial Aziz, Talal-Ch, Pervez Rashid, Saad Rafiq, and Kh-Asif will not control themselves having the generation of small mind. I salute you, Nawaz Sharif, and would like to see how Shehbaz Sharif behaves, they both are born to same parents but Nawaz Sharif you stole my heart. A'ameen.
every one should look in to his own affairs do not poke your nose in others matters. IK ia a great Muslim and great political leader of Pakistan. Talaq is legal but hatred. Soon IK will get an other one. Reasons given by Reham ( Jhoot ) are very weak. IK grace full.
Let it be a personal affair... Hopefully he will be happy and more productive.
The various discussions and spekulations on Imran Khan's divorce are indeed important, coz the masses are still under his influence as a political leader and discussions on his divorce may help to shed some light on the type of person he is. Marriage and family life plays a central and defining role in Islamic societies, unlike in western countries where it is common for the leaders to have as many affairs and one-night stands as they wish and still their work remains unaffected because of it.
May they live happily after.
IK must be sad like any other sensible person . I think , there must be a solid reasons or logic behind this very difficult decision. May be, he disclose the truth one day,
when any divorce happened,it is the female who is defamed if divorce is discussed publically---so before doing that one must think of their own sisters and daughters
There isn't anything personal in the lives of people who are in the public life. I guess at least Bollywood wins here than Lollywood:"complete with lightning cracks between each photo and Bollywood scores bursting behind." Now how the media presents it to the people is more a reflection of the society than of the media. I hope Reham and children get through this well.
Its all Imran Khan & Reham Khans fault, why did they tweet about the marriage break up, and why did the PTI spokesperson come on media to explain the matter, if it was private it should have remained private but now the PTI should'nt feel bad, just bear it.it may not be possible because Imran Khan does'nt have the temperament either.
And above all the divorce cases that are common in country. What about that??
coming back to Pakistan after a long time n looking at the tv channels now with this news taking up first 4 minutes of Headlines on every news channel like no body has seen such a thing. nobody talked about any thing when the London guy to go thru the same thing. or when Mr Punjab CM married some celebrity . but then again we as a nation ve started to listen to our political leader that when MR Premier said please dont give comments about the DUO we started listening to him and praise him while all our religions say do not do character assassination of any one.
I guess the peoples mind set is still to bug into every ones lives rather than resolve other matters like Fuel prices increasing, Communal Problems, Water shortage, Security... Etc.
Please Get a life, give personal life privacy and stop getting so involved in someone else's life. Media Please grow mature. you represent 200 million people to people outside this country think what you need to portray.
just my 2 cents.
well thats an awesome description of our media. they need a news and then they start shouting and shouting until they find the next one and forget the previous.. they should have freedom but not that much..
I guess what goes around comes around PTI behaviour has been not only vulgar but personal attacks by IK have been most indecent now they cone back to him same media his friend now his foe I guess that's called full circle of life!
Imran, now enough is enough, please declare your innings closed
This is a pure failure of IK who has not been able to keep his personal family and social life secure and clean. Wedding was made in urgency so was the divorce. One may ask why they wanted to keep it a secret until 2018.
@Gramscian don,t discuss his personal matter ...
This episode is a true representation of a society at the verge of a collapse.
Unfortunately in our country every thing goes to its extreme, and same case is with media.
I was appalled and ashamed at our Pakistani media. It completely depicted the moral degradation or our society. Our media has shed its last ounce of decency. From now, I would not be able to voice my dismay at the likes of CNN, BBC, Fox, etc.
@Ali Not clear what you trying to say - full circle of what - I am just amazed how people try to justify their interference in somebody's private matter. Media like all institutions in Pakistan has weak and below average leadership. When there are no values and no will to take moral high ground this is what you get. This has got more coverage than abuse of children in Kasur.
To paraphrase, "Even the skies are jolted when a house is broken and husband and wife go thru a divorce" - this is the teaching of a religion that we boast to be the religion of peace and harmony in the world! And look how "well" we - the muslims - are following the "glorious" teachings and setting an example! We've become the scum of this earth - we should be ashamed of ourselves!
it is very sad to see educated and decent family people stoop so low to enjoy the misery of another person's private life
Media is very smart.They need audience,Any way they can get.more the people more the money.Matter or no Matter.
I am glad at least someone is out there talking sane...This is absurd and unfortunate the way our media has behaved over this issue. I just ask one question how would these people feel if their 'personal lives' are disclosed and commented over like this...alas, it is sad and pathetic to see all this.
Why is this a NEWS. It is their private matter, we have no rights to interfere in other people's personal matters. Better stay out of it.
Excellent job
Don't blame the media. They are in the "dhanda" of making money. People want MASALA and that's what they shall get.
Don't blame the people, they have have been doing so since ages immemorial.
We Pakistanis are experts in making issues into non-issues and a non issue of a very pressing problem! I agree that the Imran Khan/ Reham breakup is sad and a bit disappointing for their fans, but the way the media is creating a hype out of this divorce is totally disgusting! Yesterday it was 'Ye hai meri Dulhan tum in se milou' played again and again, today it is 'Bhula dena mujhe, alvida hai tujhe!' Shouldnt we expect a more mature response from our TV anchors and people posting comments on social media! A divorce is no Breaking News, it is a very private part of one's life, even if it is of a celebrity like IK! Please show some respect to them as they have parted with grace, without throwing allegations at each other!
Actually result of today's local bodies elections show that YES the divorce in all probability did have serious repercussions for PTI if not for the nation.
Except for few attention seekers,almost everybody respected IK-Reham marriage.
I am really saddened by split ,but its just private matter of IK-Reham.
Our media always need some thing to bring up their rating, they should refrain from commenting on other's private life.
The media sole purpose of media in Pakistan is to create sensation and hype and unfortunately that sells..All media exist to invest our lives with artificial perceptions and arbitrary values..
Excruciatingly painful. lmran should not do it now the half soul of imran shall wounder in ecstasy.
I wonder what brought them together.... Always had doubts, wont work, it did not.
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Only if we had that little modicum of decency.....
It is a private matter. Please respect their privacy.
If it is possible for Pakistanis, we should all strive to focus our energies on top priorities.
Very nice article. Many of the TV anchors simply indulged in sensationalism. What a despicable behavior! All of us, including the media persons, need to respect their privacy and personal life.
You still could not resist blaming IK by mentioning the tweet by Faiza Khan.
Every party has its trolls. You cant hold IK responsible for what millions tweet. He has never engaged in character assassination. People say he is personal with Sharifs. Not so. Calling Sharifs corrupt is not personal, making fun of their attributes or physique is.
Love you take on this. In Pakistan, media is over sensational, though, it is supposed to relay facts than sensationalism! Air time goes to personal matters in depth and the producers are still happy with it?
You have penned it perfectly !
Good thoughts.
Splits happen all the time in every society. Why should this be a major event for everyone to drivel about?
Very good article. If only sense would prevail...
When you are a politician, then your personal life is a public. Having said that, the media has exploited the event to increase their ratings which is quite deplorable.
Exactly, this is their private matter and none of our business.
If people can be happily married, they can also be happily divorced. :)
The moral dilemma in Pakistani society is to understand which issues are personal and private for celebrities or which are substantive.
very well said.
Stop this personal matter nonsense. People look up to him for guidance. They are crazy about him. I wonder what kind of message he is sending to the kids. If you can reconcile differences, split up.
Marriage is a not a easy proposition and it is always hanging by the thread for many and in that situation you just keep face.
What Imran and Reham have done is unfortunate and its ramifications may be far reaching.
A very good write-up indeed.
its the society of spectacle in general its not us diseased pakistanis - its the way attention spans are organized and managed in pomo times -
Why wasn't there hue when Reham became Pakistan's bhabi? Why did IK then say "Can't wait to share the good news with Pakistan" when he got married? Cause wedding isn't personal but divorce is? It would be a very stupid assumption for anyone who is up there in IK's place that his/her life would/should be personal. And this isn't a "Pakistani" phenomenon at all. Happens all over the world. Doesn't Hilary still get questioned about her Husband's character? When she doesn't even have anything to do with it. Didnt't Bill Clinton himself get questioned, and didn't his fame decline exponentially after his "personal endeavors"?
Not saying there's anything wrong with getting divorced, but I fail to understand the annoyance of both IK and his supporters over this
For heavens sake, there is nothing to be delighted about. The woman was too ambitious but Imran has his own ambitions, end of the story.
Its true that its a private matter and one should respect it.Hope so imran also learns a lesson and starts respecting others and pti supporters should have some decency too.The way imran had set a trend of embarrasing and breaching everyones privacy it should stop.its just back firing on imran now.
@Najam
Agree with you 100%. Your or my marriage is a personal matter.
The marriage (and now divorce) of Imran and Reham is not.
Why?
Because when most people get married, they don't invite/allow journalists to photograph their wedding and plaster it across all media outlets.
So if you can allow that to happen - you cannot treat the divorce as personal.
That is not the media being sensationalist - that's just the way all media works globally.
As they say, you can't have your cake and eat it.
And let's face it - sadly this union was doomed from the beginning.
She wanted to use IK as a springboard to further her political ambitions.
He wanted to show that he was a statesman - with a wife and family at home.
What ever happened to decency in our culture where once personal affairs were kept personal. TV media needs to stay away from them and let them be. It's not a circus show for God's sake
@Hafsa_Khawaja pain,suffering & lose only matters when it hits us. It's gossip time when we watch others going through with it #ImranReham-split
Amazing to note how everything is someone else's fault.
If we as a society do not seek sensationalism, then it is a simple matter of self-dignity that you stop watching this nonsense. In other words, if you think you deserve better, stop yourself from being subjected to such low-level tv programming by switching the channels. If all of them are showing the same 'lightning bolts with background music from bollywood', turn the tv off and take a walk.
Heck, some electricity would be saved too.
Well if we remember correctly 10 months ago we the public had to fathom day and night news about Banigala, IK and Reham , what they are eating wearing etc etc. The couple did not mind the privacy mater they loved being on the front pages , interviews 24/7 and all the hoopla around them . So when the curtain falls why all off sudden it has beome a very private issue and their privacy shoud be respected.
These public figures survive and rise in life on commoners and media adulation. They have no right to cry foul when the chips are down !!
@Bilal The most dignified person in all this is Nawaz Sharif who has garnered much respect. He has not commented on Imran Khan's personal business and has told his party members to not comment either because it is personal. In the last two years, I have heard all kinds of personal attacks by Imran Khan against Nawaz Sharif but Nawaz will not engage in this type of gutter talk. I now have great admiration for Nawaz Sharif now. By the way, this type of divorce of a prominent leader would be tabloid talk anywhere in the world, not just Pakistan. That's what happens to any public figure.
No, it is not a private matter. Anything called a private matter but associated with a public personality like IK, is public matter. This is what the US Supreme Court has also decided. IK is not a private person. He sleeps, walks, eats, lectures in public all the time. His marriage, and its associated rituals were performed in public. As such, we the ordinary folks has "right to know" everything about this public personality. Yet, having written all these things, I am still shocked about this separation.
Imran was called a Great Son of Pakistan when he was playing cricket and winning the World Cup. It is the news-paper and TV journalists were responsible for making a villain. It is a shame. Mr.Imran Khan is the famous son of Pakistan, and his personal matter should not be X-rayed.
The media is made up of all shades and colors.........and there was nothing out of the ordinary in their behavior.......in high profile cases all over the world the media behaves sometimes better and sometimes even worse.
Public figures do not remain personal life Media rightfully or wrongly take the pleasure in such hot news
The author certainly has nailed it. A good article. The channels seem to have lost it. How insensitive can they get in their mad dash for ratings.
Our political leaders namely Nawaz Sharif,Zardari, Maulana Fazal ur Rehman and Altaf Bhai have proved to be statesman as they all declared that this is personal matter and this divorce must not be discussed by their party leaders.
Imran Khan and Reham Khan should have known this was going to happen. I saw the news in the elevator of an average building in a sub-urban location (with mostly white population). Just goes to show how popular Imran Khan is. I hope that the 2 can reconcile knowing that their lives will be worse being divorced.
The man who is unable to make good decisions in his personal life cannot be expected to make any good decisions for the nation. Character and judgement are 2 key ingredients in a person who can be entrusted to lead. Good bye Imran Khan.
Lets behave like civilized people and let the divorced couple find peace and happiness to sort out their lives. My prayers and good wishes to both.
@Najam Oh well, don't look up to him. Don't worry about other kids taking message from it. Take it as a news and move on. Everything will be normal in your life. 'People in Pakistan and the perennial problem of interference in others private matters'. Whether you keep faith in marriage 'hanging by a thread' or not, it should be a personal choice not a communal matter. Though, I agree with your take on Media but don't agree one bit with your reasoning given for it. Imran Khan should face wrath now just like he's been doing mudslinging in others' life. He should be ready to face the music now.
Imran Khan is not an ordinary individual His life ambitions are way over his personal goals. That's how he has lived his life, from youth till NOW.
Merciless people, what can you expect.
@Omar Dear Omer, I know such things happens. All she wanted to do is help him. What's wrong in it? He is saying women shall not help or stay at home?
Imran need to move slowly with consolation of religious good scholars, than he will succeed.
PTI itself set a bad tradition by prying into private lives of people. Just recall what PTI trolls said about Maryam Nawaz `elopement'.
Pakistan media is acting like Indian media .. Such nonsense needs to stop.
Proud of you today, Nawaz Sharif, just read your statement so gracious in directing party workers not to mud sling on Imran-Reham divorce, respecting their privacy. But Danial Aziz, Talal-Ch, Pervez Rashid, Saad Rafiq, and Kh-Asif will not control themselves having the generation of small mind. I salute you, Nawaz Sharif, and would like to see how Shehbaz Sharif behaves, they both are born to same parents but Nawaz Sharif you stole my heart. A'ameen.
every one should look in to his own affairs do not poke your nose in others matters. IK ia a great Muslim and great political leader of Pakistan. Talaq is legal but hatred. Soon IK will get an other one. Reasons given by Reham ( Jhoot ) are very weak. IK grace full.
Let it be a personal affair... Hopefully he will be happy and more productive.
The various discussions and spekulations on Imran Khan's divorce are indeed important, coz the masses are still under his influence as a political leader and discussions on his divorce may help to shed some light on the type of person he is. Marriage and family life plays a central and defining role in Islamic societies, unlike in western countries where it is common for the leaders to have as many affairs and one-night stands as they wish and still their work remains unaffected because of it.
May they live happily after.
IK must be sad like any other sensible person . I think , there must be a solid reasons or logic behind this very difficult decision. May be, he disclose the truth one day,
when any divorce happened,it is the female who is defamed if divorce is discussed publically---so before doing that one must think of their own sisters and daughters
There isn't anything personal in the lives of people who are in the public life. I guess at least Bollywood wins here than Lollywood:"complete with lightning cracks between each photo and Bollywood scores bursting behind." Now how the media presents it to the people is more a reflection of the society than of the media. I hope Reham and children get through this well.
Its all Imran Khan & Reham Khans fault, why did they tweet about the marriage break up, and why did the PTI spokesperson come on media to explain the matter, if it was private it should have remained private but now the PTI should'nt feel bad, just bear it.it may not be possible because Imran Khan does'nt have the temperament either.
And above all the divorce cases that are common in country. What about that??
coming back to Pakistan after a long time n looking at the tv channels now with this news taking up first 4 minutes of Headlines on every news channel like no body has seen such a thing. nobody talked about any thing when the London guy to go thru the same thing. or when Mr Punjab CM married some celebrity . but then again we as a nation ve started to listen to our political leader that when MR Premier said please dont give comments about the DUO we started listening to him and praise him while all our religions say do not do character assassination of any one.
I guess the peoples mind set is still to bug into every ones lives rather than resolve other matters like Fuel prices increasing, Communal Problems, Water shortage, Security... Etc.
Please Get a life, give personal life privacy and stop getting so involved in someone else's life. Media Please grow mature. you represent 200 million people to people outside this country think what you need to portray.
just my 2 cents.
well thats an awesome description of our media. they need a news and then they start shouting and shouting until they find the next one and forget the previous.. they should have freedom but not that much..
I guess what goes around comes around PTI behaviour has been not only vulgar but personal attacks by IK have been most indecent now they cone back to him same media his friend now his foe I guess that's called full circle of life!
Imran, now enough is enough, please declare your innings closed
This is a pure failure of IK who has not been able to keep his personal family and social life secure and clean. Wedding was made in urgency so was the divorce. One may ask why they wanted to keep it a secret until 2018.
@Gramscian don,t discuss his personal matter ...
This episode is a true representation of a society at the verge of a collapse.
Unfortunately in our country every thing goes to its extreme, and same case is with media.
I was appalled and ashamed at our Pakistani media. It completely depicted the moral degradation or our society. Our media has shed its last ounce of decency. From now, I would not be able to voice my dismay at the likes of CNN, BBC, Fox, etc.
@Ali Not clear what you trying to say - full circle of what - I am just amazed how people try to justify their interference in somebody's private matter. Media like all institutions in Pakistan has weak and below average leadership. When there are no values and no will to take moral high ground this is what you get. This has got more coverage than abuse of children in Kasur.
To paraphrase, "Even the skies are jolted when a house is broken and husband and wife go thru a divorce" - this is the teaching of a religion that we boast to be the religion of peace and harmony in the world! And look how "well" we - the muslims - are following the "glorious" teachings and setting an example! We've become the scum of this earth - we should be ashamed of ourselves!
it is very sad to see educated and decent family people stoop so low to enjoy the misery of another person's private life
Media is very smart.They need audience,Any way they can get.more the people more the money.Matter or no Matter.
I am glad at least someone is out there talking sane...This is absurd and unfortunate the way our media has behaved over this issue. I just ask one question how would these people feel if their 'personal lives' are disclosed and commented over like this...alas, it is sad and pathetic to see all this.
Why is this a NEWS. It is their private matter, we have no rights to interfere in other people's personal matters. Better stay out of it.
Excellent job
Don't blame the media. They are in the "dhanda" of making money. People want MASALA and that's what they shall get.
Don't blame the people, they have have been doing so since ages immemorial.
We Pakistanis are experts in making issues into non-issues and a non issue of a very pressing problem! I agree that the Imran Khan/ Reham breakup is sad and a bit disappointing for their fans, but the way the media is creating a hype out of this divorce is totally disgusting! Yesterday it was 'Ye hai meri Dulhan tum in se milou' played again and again, today it is 'Bhula dena mujhe, alvida hai tujhe!' Shouldnt we expect a more mature response from our TV anchors and people posting comments on social media! A divorce is no Breaking News, it is a very private part of one's life, even if it is of a celebrity like IK! Please show some respect to them as they have parted with grace, without throwing allegations at each other!
Actually result of today's local bodies elections show that YES the divorce in all probability did have serious repercussions for PTI if not for the nation.
Except for few attention seekers,almost everybody respected IK-Reham marriage.
I am really saddened by split ,but its just private matter of IK-Reham.
Our media always need some thing to bring up their rating, they should refrain from commenting on other's private life.
The media sole purpose of media in Pakistan is to create sensation and hype and unfortunately that sells..All media exist to invest our lives with artificial perceptions and arbitrary values..
Excruciatingly painful. lmran should not do it now the half soul of imran shall wounder in ecstasy.
I wonder what brought them together.... Always had doubts, wont work, it did not.