As the last days of Ramazan pass, Muslims around the world eagerly prepare for Eidul Fitr, a festival of joy, togetherness and gratitude. Families and friends gather, delicious food is prepared, and eidi is exchanged. Beyond the celebrations, Eid carries a deeper meaning — that of spreading love, kindness and generosity.
Eid is not just about celebrating with our own families; it is about sharing joy with others. This Eid, let’s give as much charity as possible and help those in need so they, too, can celebrate with happiness.
Let me share a personal story to illustrate this. Last year, as Eid approached, my family and I were busy with preparations and cleaning. Our maid, who helps daily, was assisting us. When it was time to clean my room, my mother began organising my closet. She noticed several dresses I had barely worn and asked why I didn’t wear them.
I replied, “Mum, I don’t really like their style.”
She suggested giving them to our maid for her children. Initially, I hesitated, feeling reluctant to part with new dresses. My mother gently explained that sharing our unused belongings with those in need brings joy to them and rewards for us. Her words made me realise that my dresses, though unused by me, could mean the world to someone else.
Understanding this, I quickly agreed and handed them over. My mother encouraged me to personally give them to our maid. When I did, she smiled and her eyes welling up with tears.
“This year, I couldn’t afford a new Eid dress for my daughter,” she said, “but now, thanks to you, she will have something beautiful to wear.”
Hearing this, I felt an indescribable joy — the kind that comes from being a source of happiness for others. Before she left, my mother also gave her Eidi along with her salary, ensuring she could buy something for herself and her children. The maid thanked us again and left for her home, looking very happy.
That experience changed my perspective. I decided to regularly give away things in good condition that I no longer used, ensuring they benefited someone else rather than sitting unused. Charity should be a thoughtful act, given with sincerity and care, as a way to seek Allah’s pleasure. It is important not give things in a very poor condition to others, because charity is something that we give to seek Allah’s blessings and pleaseure, so we should make sure that what we give is of good quality and in a good condition.
I shared this story hoping it inspires you to look around and help those who might need even the smallest assistance. Let’s make a promise this Eid to unite in kindness, give generously and spread joy beyond our own homes. The happiness that comes from sharing is truly priceless.
Published in Dawn, Young World, March 29th, 2025
