Saudi society changing — but don’t mention Valentine’s

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RIYADH: Red clothing and innerwear are displayed in Saudi shopfronts, but the increasingly popular Valentine’s Day promotions are missing one thing: the festival’s name.

While sales surge and Valen­tine’s gifts become more common among the youthful Saudi population, the word “Valentine’s” is nowhere to be seen.

“Management has asked us to decorate the window display with red lingerie... but without mentioning anywhere Valentine’s Day,” said one salesperson at a Riyadh mall, who did not want to be named as she was not authorised to speak to media.

The displays represent change in Saudi Arabia, where stick-toting religious police once cracked down on sales of Valentine’s Day paraphernalia and even on people wearing red during the February 14 festival.

Valentine’s Day has vague origins dating back to Roman times, when several Christian martyrs were named Valentine. The celebration for lovers, mar­ked widely around the world, was firmly off-limits in the ultraconservative kingdom which would only mark Muslim holidays and its September national day.

But Saudi Arabia has been undergoing social change as it attempts to present a more appealing image and diversify its oil-dependent economy. It has curbed the feared religious police and given women more freedoms.

Among these, they now have the right to drive, and can add colour to their dress beyond the traditional plain black abaya robe. These changes, however, have come alongside a crackdown on dissent which has seen clerics and women’s rights activists detained.

“We can now put red clothes on view comfortably and even put them on the window display,” said a saleswoman at Grenada Mall in east Riyadh, who also spoke anonymously.

“There are many customers requesting red lingerie during Valentine’s Day,” she added. “We have discounts dur­ing this time, but we don’t call them Valentine’s Day offers.” Not everyone is comfortable with the innerwear being on show, finding it a jarring sight after decades when such items were kept strictly behind closed doors.

“I don’t want to see these things,” said one woman, fully veiled in black except for her eyes. She did not want to give her name.

“They bother me, but there are people who like it and this is their freedom of choice.” Times are changing, though, and many in Saudi Arabia — where more than half the population is under 35 — are embracing Valen­tine’s Day, whether they call it that or not.

Published in Dawn, February 14th, 2022

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