Women set off on Haj as ‘guardian’ rule cast aside

Published July 21, 2021
Pakistani pilgrim Bushra Ali Shah, 35, bids her husband farewell before departing to Haj, for the first time without a male guardian, from her home in Saudi Arabia's Red Sea coastal city of Jeddah, on July 16. — AFP
Pakistani pilgrim Bushra Ali Shah, 35, bids her husband farewell before departing to Haj, for the first time without a male guardian, from her home in Saudi Arabia's Red Sea coastal city of Jeddah, on July 16. — AFP

MAKKAH: Bushra Shah, a 35-year-old Pakistani, says she is realising a childhood dream by making the great pilgrimage to Makkah, and under new rules she’s doing it without a male “guardian”.

The Haj Ministry has officially allowed women of all ages to make the pilgrimage without a male relative, known as a “mehrem”, on the condition that they go in a group.

The decision is part of social reforms rolled out by de facto leader Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman, who is trying to shake off the kingdom’s austere image and open up its oil-reliant economy.

Since his rise to power, women have been allowed to drive and to travel abroad without a male guardian.

“It’s like a dream come true. My childhood dream was to make the Haj,” Shah said, before setting off from her home in Jeddah.

For the young mother, making the pilgrimage with her husband and child would have been a distraction that would have prevented her from “concentrating completely on the rites”.

Shah is one of 60,000 pilgrims chosen to take part in this year’s Haj, which has been dramatically scaled down for the second year running because of the coronavirus pandemic.

Only citizens and residents of Saudi Arabia, chosen in a lottery, are taking part. Officials have said that 40 per cent of this year’s pilgrims are women.

“Many women will also come with me. I am very proud that we are now independent and do not need a guardian,” she said.

Her husband, Ali Murtada, said he “strongly encouraged” his wife to make the trip alone, after the government’s decision to ban children from participating in the Haj this year.

He will stay in Jeddah to look after their child. “We decided that one of us should go. Maybe she will be pregnant next year or maybe the children will still not be allowed to participate,” the 38-year-old said.

It was unclear when the Haj Ministry lifted the restriction, and some women have reported that travel agencies are still reluctant to accept women travelling without a male companion for the pilgrimage.

Authorities previously required the presence of a male guardian for any woman pilgrim under the age of 45, preventing many Muslim women around the world from making the Haj.

That was the case for Marwa Shaker, an Egyptian woman living in the Saudi capital, Riyadh. “Haj without a guardian is a miracle,” the 42-year-old, who works for a civil society organisation, said.

Now travelling to Makkah with three of her friends, the mother of three had tried several times to make the pilgrimage before the pandemic. But she was unable to because her husband had already been and was not permitted to go again so soon. “I feel enormously joyful. God has called me despite all the obstacles,” she said.

Published in Dawn, July 21st, 2021

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