This past year, the viewing public has seen a myriad of images of Ben Affleck: In February, looking “smitten” while taking a walk with girlfriend Lindsay Shookus. In March, gazing into the ocean off Hawaii, displaying his much-mocked back tattoo. In August, pausing at a fast food drive-through window with a Playboy model, amid headlines that he and Shookus had split.
And then last week, a miserable-looking Affleck in the back seat of a car driven by his equally unhappy-looking estranged wife, Jennifer Garner. TMZ, People, Us Weekly, and E! reported that Garner was taking him to rehab to receive treatment for alcohol addiction. (Affleck’s publicist did not return a request for comment.) This comes after more bleak pictures of Affleck, who did a second stint in rehab last year, accepting an apparent liquor delivery at his home.
On one hand, it’s surprising to see such drama between two A-listers play out so publicly: While paparazzi are crafty, there are presumably many ways for stars to conduct their private business away from the cameras. And yet both Affleck and Garner seem uniquely aware of the power of public image — which for many celebrities is just as important than their actual career.
Do we need to know so much about Ben Affleck?
Affleck’s zigzag trajectory as an actor and director has always moved in parallel to his relationships. As he broke out with Good Will Hunting and Armageddon in the late 1990s, he hooked up with Gwyneth Paltrow, fresh off her Oscar for Shakespeare in Love. His bombs like Gigli and disappointments like Daredevil in the early 2000s coincided with his becoming a tabloid punchline as one half of Bennifer, in a frenzied, much-discussed relationship with Jennifer Lopez.
When he wed Garner in 2005, it ushered in a new era. Suddenly, they were the golden couple with the adorable children — spotted all over Los Angeles, on ice-cream runs and playing in the park — and Affleck started to earn acclaim again for smaller roles (Hollywoodland, State of Play) and directing movies such as The Town. In 2012, he directed the Oscar-winning Argo.
Thus the question that was raised when Affleck and Garner separated in June 2015: What happens to your career when the star-powered marriage that helped propel it is over? Garner, 46, brilliantly continued to cement her narrative as a wholesome, protective mum to her three children. She has starred in family-friendly films such as Miracles From Heaven and Nine Lives while targeting critical acclaim with HBO’s upcoming comedy Camping. Her popular Instagram account is filled with goofy videos of reading books to her dog; filming episodes for her Pretend Cooking Show; or promoting her organic baby food company, Once Upon a Farm.
It’s a stark contrast to Affleck’s ups and downs over the last three years. Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice made him millions, though his performance as Batman drew scorn. “Sad Affleck” became a meme after his wistful expression when an interviewer asked about about the lousy reviews. This past fall, his press tour for Justice League kept turning into discussions about sexual harassment, as he was asked about Good Will Hunting producer Harvey Weinstein. And as the #MeToo movement picked up steam, he apologised for his on-air groping of a young MTV host, Hilarie Burton, in 2003.
Affleck also made for some more positive headlines, via his relationship with Shookus, a well-liked Saturday Night Live producer. Despite speculation about when exactly their relationship started, they became a tabloid-favourite couple, frequently snapped walking their dogs or shopping or hiking; the Cut catalogued 47 times they were photographed getting iced coffee. Affleck may have just been trying to live his best life as a 46-year-old separated dad — but at this point, he was clearly savvy enough to know that fans find inexplicable joy in seeing celebrities go about their mundane activities happily.
Throughout their split, Affleck and Garner have been open about co-parenting and trying to keep life as normal as possible for their kids. They give friendly interviews about each other. Two months after Garner filed for divorce in spring 2017, the family went on vacation to the Caribbean together.
So it raised some eyebrows last month when TMZ’s The Blast revealed the couple has still not officially divorced; the court has threatened to dismiss the case “for delay in prosecution.” A source “exclusively” told Us Weekly that it was because Garner has concerns about Affleck’s sobriety and how it could affect their kids. Then over the past week, it emerged that Affleck and Shookus had broken up; and he was photographed with Shauna Sexton, the young Playboy model who, as multiple articles made sure to point out, has been quoted as saying that she loves drinking whiskey.
Now, as Affleck is reportedly headed back to rehab, observers once again have a front-row seat. Knowing how Affleck has been covered in the past, it’s likely it will all be carefully chronicled once again.
— By arrangement with The Washington Post
Published in Dawn, ICON, September 2nd, 2018