Chinese woman looking for ‘runaway boyfriend’ taken into protective custody

MUZAFFARGARH: A Chinese woman has been taken into protective custody by the district police on her second visit to Seetpur area to look for her Pakistani ‘boyfriend’ who, she alleges, secretly returned from China after ditching her.

According to police, 23-year-old Tein Domi alias Dolly was first spotted in Seetpur a week ago. When asked about the purpose of her visit, she told police that she worked as a clerk in a medical college in China where a Pakistani youth, Amin Amjad, was studying medicine. A relationship developed between the two there.

Dolly claimed that she had supported Amin financially during his stay in China and even sold her house to pay his college fee, but he ditched her and returned to Pakistan without informing her. Since she had Amin’s address, she reached his hometown Seetpur.

But she said she was disappointed by the attitude of Amin’s family who refused to receive her and were not telling her about his whereabouts. Amin’s mobile phone was also switched off.

District Police Officer Malik Awais Ahmed said Dolly had come to Pakistan about 20 days ago and was looking for Ameen. Police took her into protective custody and made arrangements for her stay at the Circuit House.

The DPO said police later contacted the Chinese Embassy officials in Islamabad and after informing them about the situation sent Dolly there.

Three days ago she again reached Seetpur but again could not find Ameen there and his family claimed that he was still in China.

The DPO said police were looking for Amin and were worried about Dolly’s security because she was not cooperating with them. She was kept at an undisclosed place in women police’s custody for security reasons, he said, adding that Dolly’s visa is valid till Dec 1.

Published in Dawn, November 3rd, 2015

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crypto55

Nov 03, 2015 07:31am

Real men don't take undue advantage of women.

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Bhai Jan

Nov 03, 2015 07:37am

This man should be found and his parents should be forced to disclose his whereabouts. If he is in China they will find him soon. But if he is hiding in Pakistan then anything can happen. The CM should take special interest in it because this girl is really in love with the man and she is telling the truth about selling her house to pay for his education. It's a very bad impression about Pakistanis, and bad for Pak China dosti.

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Nangyal

Nov 03, 2015 07:48am

This guy needs to man up and face this girl.

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Zak

Nov 03, 2015 08:07am

Pakistan govt should take personal interest in this matter and provide justice to this poor Chinese Girl.

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sana-1

Nov 03, 2015 08:09am

This issue will have negative impact on our time tested relationship with China, the boy who ditched her should be punished and ensured that he does not do such acts again.

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taimoor khan

Nov 03, 2015 08:17am

Pakistan govt should ensure this story has happy ending as this may spawn millions of such relationships between Pakistani Men and Chinese Women, taking our all weather friendship to newer heights and making relationship between Pakistan and China unbreakable.

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Nov 03, 2015 08:26am

Give her money back that she gave him or spent on him

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Shaukat Ali Khan

Nov 03, 2015 08:42am

He must be traced and punished.

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stranger

Nov 03, 2015 08:57am

Appears to be the same old story of a traditional family coming in the way of something that the boy started on his own. I feel sorry for the poor lady. Names and photo should not have been revealed as this is a personal matter of someone.

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B.Ally

Nov 03, 2015 10:14am

Robing her of house, money and trust. The guy is cheat through and through . How far he will run away . One day he will have to pay through his nose.

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Zeeshan S.

Nov 03, 2015 10:20am

Love is blind.

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khan

Nov 03, 2015 10:33am

guy should be punished or retun that girl money and incentives, i also must mention that due to these scandal Pakistanis image are tarnished in foreign countries. may be our media is not highlighting this but world media are always in search of such news.

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Sampheonix

Nov 03, 2015 10:39am

@Zeeshan S. Love is not blind....she'd sold her house for that guy, she'd lost her money and yeah love too. That guy is totally fraudulent...but we should not believe on one sided story

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Nausheen Mehmood

Nov 03, 2015 10:46am

There's no rule of punishment for breaking-up, I think there's nothing the government can do except for returning her money.

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rashid

Nov 03, 2015 10:48am

Pakistan government should be supportive of this young girl. She has been very brave to come here alone. Her tears also tell a story. The least can be done is that she be compensated for the hard earned money that she squandered on the scoundrel.

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aamir

Nov 03, 2015 10:53am

Ameen must be arrested and matter should be thoroughly investigated

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Muhammad Nawaz

Nov 03, 2015 10:56am

The guy used her as a ladder to achieve his educational / career ambitions. The matter should be thoroughly & independently investigated. Based on the findings, an exemplary justice should be served to the innocent party as a deterrence to ones who harbor such malafide intentions.

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Javed Akhter

Nov 03, 2015 11:08am

It is not new, it has happened in the past with other women of different national which I cam to know through newspaper in the past. However it is very sad and the boy who dithced this innocent Chinese girl must be traced out and punished as per law of land.

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Muzafar

Nov 03, 2015 11:24am

Lesson to learn for girls. Not to fall in trap by boys and safe guard their honor.

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Shah

Nov 03, 2015 11:27am

Because of such people we are disgraced all over the world... this guy should been punished if found guilty.. please it's a request from all Pakistani staying abroad..and please take good care of the Chinese girl they are very humble and simple people.

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Kiani

Nov 03, 2015 11:39am

This is totally unclear as we have not hear the other side. This story is still developing...If that's true I need justice for Dolly! #JusticeFor Dolly

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T. M. Wazir

Nov 03, 2015 11:42am

This sincere chines girl deserve justice . I couldn't believe the behavior of the boy's family. Hopefully, diplomatic channel shows some support and financial help.

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Karachiites!!

Nov 03, 2015 11:50am

People don't understand!! Wrong doing within the country spread news "XYZ(person name) did that" but wrong doing any where outside the country spread news "PAKISTANI person did that" it spoil not only his/her personality but also name of our country, Please don't do anything bad with anyone where ever you are but outside the country we should be even more careful and avoid even small mistakes.

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Noor. M

Nov 03, 2015 12:15pm

I live in Canada since 1976, All Pakistanies are the ambassodors of Pakistan, please safe guard your respect & you nation & country also. Mr. Ameen, if you have used her, you have options, pay her in full may extra as well & make her feel comfortable, treat her good, respect her, respect our friendship with China also. Don't cheet her. rather give her more what you have taken from her, this will make your head high in the eyes of all Pakistanies and chanies also. Please, I urge you don't wast any time to resolve your dispute with chanies's Lady. Please help her.

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Pakistani

Nov 03, 2015 12:25pm

This is a Girl friend/ boy friend story, it happens any where inside or outside Pakistan. These Girls are Naive, that they marry Pakistanis Men. We have different Culture, different believes, thinking etc. Family mixes mostly in such relations or the Boy leave the girl because of "No Interest".. Many time Boys show themselves financially down. They marry these Poor girls, as soon as they get the Nationality of that country, they kick off these poor girl, later marry a girl from their own culture. Pakistanis should marry a girl from their own society and shouldn't ruin a foreign girls life.. This is the story!

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Fareedm

Nov 03, 2015 12:27pm

She should report to Chinese police for this deception then see how our government reacts. Nothing will happen if its all verbal agreement but definitely gives bad image about the people of the country in general.

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XYZ

Nov 03, 2015 12:35pm

I know two men in Pakistan, one has Japanese wife and other has Chinese wife. Both men not only financially strong than before but are prominent in society because of foreign wives (one is using Japanese after his name). As issue is in media government should ask man hiding and his family to resolve the issue as early as possible to entire satisfaction of Chinese girl.

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Raje

Nov 03, 2015 12:42pm

If he can do with her, he can do this with other girls in future too. He needs to be punished. His family not accepting what she says is also an indication that family is also involved in this.

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fahadurrehman

Nov 03, 2015 12:49pm

@Sampheonix you are right

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Another Pakistani

Nov 03, 2015 01:01pm

Amin Amjad should behave like a man not a MOUSE. His family is doing great harm by preventing him from owning up to his own responsibilities. This is pathetic. I have three foreign daughters-in-law - one of them is Chinese. And their culture of respect for elders, hard work and honest has won my Chinese daughter-in-law a place in the heart of every member of our family.

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shaikh mohammad nadeem

Nov 03, 2015 02:10pm

This issue will have negative impact on our relationship with China . Pakistan Prim Minister Mr. Nawaz Sharif is responsible to provide justice .The boy who ditched her should be punished. Please save Pakistan image.

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Abdur Rahman

Nov 03, 2015 02:20pm

Pakistani men are not like this. Amazingly, she still has hope. You do not find faithful people like her these days. I hope Amin will realize this some day.

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Jaan Bhittani

Nov 03, 2015 02:54pm

She is a cute girl,, the boy must marry her..

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Akram

Nov 03, 2015 03:35pm

Well, this is becoming a common matter whereby Pakistani guys take undue advantage of western and Chinese women and ditch them after using them! Pakistani govt should trace the guy and provide justice to this girl!

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Pakistani

Nov 03, 2015 05:03pm

@sana-1 . Don't think it will go that far. But obviously it is a shameful act done by a Pakistani to a Chinese. So there will be some anger in China.

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Human

Nov 04, 2015 08:15am

I truly feel sorry for her. Hope she gets out of this messy situation she has brought herself into and learn lesson from it.

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