Both India and Pakistan - their governments and people alike - are now persuaded as never before that it is better for them to live in peace with each other than in a state of war.
In Pakistan just one parochial, though organized, political party (Jamaat-e-Islami) and a small but articulate section of the intelligentsia with its nucleus in Lahore feel convinced that by being friendly with India, Pakistan will first lose its ideology and ultimately its sovereignty.
No such fear haunts India. The hostility for Pakistan and for the Indian Muslims (both have historically gone together) that had their origin in the partition of India and the disputes that followed is fast diminishing. Despite the Bharatiya Janata Party's (BJP) communal ancestry, Pakistan and the Indian Muslims both have learnt to deal with Mr Vajpayee as leader of the National Democratic Alliance ignoring his yet unsevered links with the Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS), Vishwa Hindu Parishad (VHP), Shiv Sena and, equalling all three in venom, Narendra Modi of Gujarat.
While doubts and scepticism persist, and while Kashmir continues to loom painfully large in the background, the atmosphere in both countries is now conducive enough for them to learn from each other and in many fields more rewarding than cricket.
Even if, worryingly, it all ends where Kashmir begins, it would leave the two societies richer by the experiences shared in politics and administration and wiser in tackling similar social and economic problems and the moral dilemmas they face.
After all, the heritage is shared and the mystical and modern converge here on common ground. Yet, despite India being the largest democracy and Pakistan an Islamic welfare state, the subcontinent has only 2.5 per cent of the world's wealth - though it contains 22.5 per cent of the global population.
In the midst of elections in India in which peace with Pakistan occupies centre-stage that it hasn't ever in the past, it is a moment for us here to reflect on how, despite a common though short acquaintance with parliamentary institutions before independence, India succeeded in keeping them going but Pakistan did not.
Pondering over the past may be of academic interest only but it might throw up some practical lessons both for the people and leaders of Pakistan in recovering lost democratic ground.
Looking back, it appears that the course of democracy in both countries in their fateful moments was determined by their army chiefs. General Maneckshaw, with the aura of the conqueror of East Pakistan surrounding him, resisted the temptation of taking over the government when Indira Gandhi, pathetically stuck in the quagmire of her own emergency, was apprehending it. General Ayub Khan had succumbed to it years earlier in far less inviting circumstances.
Since then, Pakistan has found an answer to its fickle politics in military coups and India in elections. The obvious lesson to be drawn from the Indian example is that whenever a government feels unsure of itself, as the Jamali government presently does, it should turn to the people and not to the army.
Democracy would have dug its roots in Pakistan's soil the day a prime minister advised the president of the country to dissolve parliament, rather than the president or army chief dismissing him. The politicians here should find it useful to share views with their Indian counterparts on the prospects of democracy.
Elections held and won cannot sustain a government if they are rigged. The best guarantee against rigging is an independent election commission.
The election commission in India is acknowledged to be not just independent but fiercely so. The chief election commissioner is sometimes known to err in impartiality but against the party in power rather than in its favour.
The two Indian CECs of the recent past (M.S. Gill and J.M. Lyngdoh) had prohibited comments on the Kargil conflict or showing footage from it for it would have impinged on the neutrality of the armed forces. They also rejected a proposal by the ruling BJP to hold elections ahead of schedule in Gujarat as the wounds from the massacre of Muslims had not healed and the campaign could rekindle passions when the killers were still at large.
In the current election, the Uttar Pradesh election commissioner stopped offerings of sweets at a temple by the supporters of Mr Vajpayee in his constituency for the electoral code bars the use of places of worship for campaigning. During the election period, the staff and police deputed to election duty are put under the control of the commission which can punish them for insubordination or dereliction of duty.
Pakistan's election commission comprises judges, and not executive officers as in India, yet, sadly, it has been suspected at all times past and present of passively observing irregularities and ignoring them. Maybe in the exchange of views our leaders too can come to appreciate the need for an independent election commission comprising administrators.
The judges can be called upon to arbitrate in disputes arising out of the electoral process.
The leaders of public opinion and government here should also try to discover how India has been able to deal with the administrative and law-enforcement structures of the colonial times with adjustments made in the public service cadres as the need arose, and yet have local government institutions develop alongside.
The Indians, whether in practising democracy or running an administration, have refused to be innovative. They let be whatever was working. It has been to their advantage.
Our reformist zeal rooted in ignorance and prejudices has wreaked havoc both in the elective and bureaucratic systems.
The decline of the Congress as a dominant national party has enabled a host of regional parties to influence national politics and safeguard local interests by joining as coalition partners a few major parties. That pattern is unlikely to change in the current elections no matter whether the coalition is led by the BJP or the Congress.
The politics of Pakistan denies such an opportunity to regional parties, who left without representation both at the national and provincial planes, either sulk in isolation or live by rhetoric.
Since the smaller provinces and ethnic and religious minorities are ill-represented even in the armed forces and in the civil services they are cast out of the power structure altogether.
Free elections combined with the recognition of provincial rights and civil liberties in general should provide a wider and more durable base for demo-cracy in Pakistan as it has in India.
It is not all one-way traffic. When it comes to social and moral stresses caused by alcoholism, lewdness, prostitution and similar evils which inevitably accompany a pluralistic society, India could benefit by following Pakistan's orthodox restraints imposed by its religious and legal codes. In India, 10 million people are suspected to have AIDS. The number in Pakistan can be counted on one's fingers.
Even the BBC seemed to be putting its credibility at stake when it reported the other day that in a village not far from hi-tech, affluent Bangalore only widows and orphans are left to despair for the unremitting poverty and incurable disease that has driven every adult male of the village to suicide. The problems the two countries face call for cooperation after a half century of confrontation.