Flesh is weak
By Reema Abbasi
She lurks in shadows; on dark street corners, in damp, squalid rooms and sometimes in shimmering mansions, smug in borrowed majesty. But whatever her avatar, she is always the crime. Meena is 16 years of age and a sex worker who frequents Karachi’s squalid Napier Road where hard-eyed men throng tiny lanes still awash with decaying pools of monsoon water. She was brought here from Bangladesh at 13, when her widowed mother died of tuberculosis and Meena became a burden on her uncles. “It is silly to even think about my country and home. I don’t know what that means. Besides, I am in pain but am scared to leave as I will be completely on my own,” she says.
But she is fighting hard to survive. Just like Nasreen, whose fondest memories are of the time when her home rang with the children’s laughter and her husband was a hero in the locality. Orphaned in childhood, Nasreen could not have asked for more. But today, as the sun dies, she prepares for yet another night on the sullied streets of Orangi. These streets have kept her alive since her husband, an office- bearer of Muttahida Qaumi Movement (MQM), died in a police encounter. “I was abandoned by everybody I knew and this was the only way out. I couldn’t let my children die and wanted to educate them,” she says. Nasreen, however, is certain that there will be a time when, in another town, life will limp back to dignity. “My son will become an engineer and we will be respectable again. Then I will settle my daughter as well.”
Similar wounds fester across the border but few would dare to call it a crime of faith. Yellawa’s became one of the more famous cases of a renowned Indian NGO Saheli, one of the first in India to fight HIV in red light areas. She was an eight-year old who became a Devadasi or a temple virgin —girl slaves to the gods. Her parents gave her away in exchange for a prayer for a son. When Devadasis come of age, they become the property of the priests and can be hired out. Although this practice is now illegal, it is still prevalent in many districts of Karnataka. Reportedly, Yellawa’s journey began in a sleepy village in Karnataka and ended in a seedy Mumbai brothel, where at 32, she continues to help an NGO battle AIDS. She has been quoted in many social development journals as saying that she is still in the business because she cannot get a job with this stigma.
Cut to swankier environs in Lahore where glossy surfaces belie higher stakes. “If I leave, my keepers will hunt me down,” says Nadia, (name changed) who is an actress but continues to work as an escort. “If I get lucky, someone will marry me but I have to work to save as I don’t want to return to where I came from. I am rich and used to material comfort,” she explains.
From circumstance to sanctified prostitution such as Yellawa’s, these women have known betrayal intimately. They also know the hazards of the flesh trade well but their fear of the unknown is far stronger than a desire for security. International NGOs may have fought long and hard to enforce health measures in these localities, but if such initiatives are armed with large-scale counseling, it may enable these workers to muster up more confidence for newer challenges. Surveys declare that up to 80 per cent of sex workers are victims of either abuse or disease and that prostitution rises in times of displacement and is more rampant in areas affected by terrorism and war. Experts maintain that women are the hardest hit in times of turmoil and economic crises as they have neither occupation nor resources. However, the West cashes in on these tragedies by using these dispossessed women for sex tourism in places such as Amsterdam and Bangkok. Activists say that such conditions create refugees and women turn to prostitution for food and shelter.
It is also the duty of the civil society to give them a fighting chance at life by making employment available. Also, literacy drives and small handicraft centres in these localities may provide them with choices they never had. These are lives without context and all they are likely to leave behind, is more fear and despair.


