Shaista Almani’s plight
BY chance the worthy verdict of the Supreme Court about the women’s will and the advice (warning) of Shaista Almani appeared on the same day in newspapers.
The Supreme Court judgment is clear and now no one, including the parents, can force women to marry against their will. Shockingly, Shaista Almani, a girl from Sukkur who married of her own choice and is now fearing she may be killed, advised the girls not to marry against the will and wishes of their parents.
The above two news-items caused a lot of confusion and created a big question. Who has the right and reasonable approach? Shaista Almani or the Supreme Court?
No one can dare oppose or challenge the decision of the apex court, but Ms Almani has also reached the conclusion and has a practical experience. She has personally suffered and one can stand in her shoes.
Let one imagine what will be a woman’s condition if her brother and / or sister closes their doors on her? How will she be feeling when she goes to bed or takes food when everyone around her wants to kill her? We can weep on her depressing and piteous condition but we cannot give her the love of her parents, relatives and her village, and the streets where she has played with her friends are no more her own.
Man is superior but not in ruling women, nor is he stronger than woman. He is superior only in responsibilities. But in Shaista Almani’s case the man has disappeared. Only she is suffering. If he has been forced to do so, the law- enforcement agencies are responsible for it as they could not provide him with protection.
Laws are valuable when they are implemented in letter and in spirit. It is suggested that the relevant authorities take Ms Almani’s case as an instance in the light of the Supreme Court decision, so that women in Pakistan take a sigh of relief and feel safe and secure.
In the present situation the women can only accept Ms Almani’s advice.
MOHAMMAD FAIQ
Karachi

