POLITICS, once confined to parliaments and political offices, has now become part of social gatherings and get-togethers. An increase in political polarisation, divergent opinions and divided ideologies has led Pakistan to witness a fragmentation of family unity. Lack of tolerance and bipartisan policies have worsened the political system. Disagreements, counter-opinions and healthy debates are no doubt necessary for a democratic state, but excessive antagonism among political groups weakens institutional harmony and penetrates domestic spaces.

Partisan politics is silently eroding the cohesiveness, collectivism and harmony in social relations in imperceptible but profound ways. The parental generation often remains loyal to traditional political parties, whereas young members today gravitate towards populist leaders. A noticeable disconnect has emerged in families due to such political dissonance.

People, during weddings and family gatherings, prefer to share tables with those whose political ideology aligns with theirs, while avoiding those with opposing views. Narcissistic politicians in Pakistan exploit the masses as cannon fodder to advance their agendas and suppress rival groups.

The current fragile national unity, fuelled by political polarisation, brings to mind the famous remark of Klemens von Metternich about Italy. Back in the 19th century, he had observed that provinces were against provinces, towns against towns, families against families, and men against men, thereby delaying the independence of a unified Italy.

A healthy political debate should be encouraged, respecting the boundaries of social relations. A culture of tolerance and constructive criticism should be fostered to circumvent the prevalent social turmoil over political differences. The people of Pakistan should comprehend how they are weakening family bonds over petty political debate. The nation should be politically literate and able to discern between rhetoric and genuine dialogue.

Mudasir Ahmed
Karachi

Published in Dawn, May 10th, 2026