Where are the new feminists?
By Muna Khan
ASK a group of women if they are feminists and you are likely to be met with an awkward silence. You can’t really blame them, what with the clichés feminists have acquired over the years: from them being man-like in appearance and hating men to feminists not believing in hair removal.
This is hardly the stuff cool is made of. Yet the first generation of feminists made significant contributions to social movements in the West. In Pakistan they helped the women’s movement that fought against oppressive laws. That fight is still on but its crusaders are dwindling in number. Perhaps, feminism needs an image makeover if it is to survive.
It would be foolish to think that feminism has achieved all that it set out to do when it was first launched in the 1970s as a movement to fight injustices. Its success in the West in securing better pay, access to healthcare and education has meant that younger women take those things for granted and do not feel the need to engage themselves in feminist issues. The same applies in Pakistan with a growing number of women feeling disengaged from everything. However, the battle is far from over: the discrimination in salaries still exists, as does the glass ceiling; healthcare rights are always at threat of being taken away (fewer funds for maternal healthcare for example) and the objectification of women in the media is depressing.
These are all issues that feminists continue to speak up against but their voices are rarely heard, or, countered by right-wingers who coin terms like ‘feminazi’ to trash the entire movement.
Such stereotypes, along with the ones about feminists not shaving, take the focus away from the issue at hand, be it empowering women in governance or asking why women have to prove that they weren’t asking to be raped. If more space was given to these issues, perhaps a variety of voices — good, bad, hairy — could be heard.
The media, in the form of magazines or TV shows, should share some blame for alienating ‘other’ voices. Women can now celebrate their independence on TV because they do not have to worry about having to cover their heads but what exactly are they celebrating if shows are sponsored by face-whitening creams? Where is the celebration of individuality, which interestingly enough, is one of the things that feminists once fought for?
The toughest battle for women, feminists included, is to overcome societal attitudes. There is so much violence against women in Pakistan and it is disturbing that it does not cause the outrage that it should, politically or socially. Feminists need to include men in their movement and not just as token gestures, like the few odd male protestors at rallies.
Men’s attitudes need to change and that is only possible if they are included in the dialogue. The movement needs strong male and female role models if it is to get a renewed boost. Above all, it needs to shed all forms of stereotype from within so it can fight stereotypes that keep society enslaved.

