In today's world, where just about everything and everyone has a special day to themselves, it is only fair to give children a day to celebrate being children. I am sure you know about Children's Day and its activities, its history and meaning, but did you know that Japanese children fly carp-shaped kites that are considered very prestigious in Japanese culture.

The Children's Day holiday actually came about from an ancient Chinese story about carp fish that swam up a waterfall and turned into dragons. For those who know little about carp fish, carp is a large group of strong fish known for their energy and for jumping high out of the water. Somewhat like goldfish, only more colourful, the carp are considered very sacred and popular in Japanese culture as they are a symbol of strength, love and friendship. It is so because of the ability of the carp to survive and adapt to various climates and water conditions. They are considered a symbol of perseverance because they have to swim up stream against the strong water current to lay their eggs, which requires a lot of strength and bravery on their part. Through carp kites, the Japanese parents hope that their children will inherit these characteristics.

This is the reason why Japanese families fly kites in the shape of carp to show the children the importance of strength and courage. Young Japanese boys often receive their carp kite when they're born and their kite flies every year on Children's Day until they become a teenager. The kites are mostly hung from a bamboo pole, with a sparkler on top. Each family member has their own carp kite. The largest kite at the top of the bamboo is usually for the father, the second for the mother, and the smaller ones for the children. Long strands of colourful ribbons blow alongside the kites, which make them appear even more beautiful.

So if you're in the mood for something different this Children's Day, why not do it like the Japanese do and make yourself a carp kite. You can take tips from the internet or look up a picture in the library and try and copy it. Just remember, its all about strength, love and friendship. — Rabail Baig