TIRANA: “It's another girl,” Roza said to the doctor, tears streaming down her pale face. “I cannot keep it, doctor, I already have three daughters,” she implored.
The tiny, 28-year-old woman whose hair is already streaked with grey is more than four months pregnant — beyond the nation's legal abortion limit — but says she is ready to risk her life to make sure this baby is not born.
It is an all too frequent scene in Albania where the Council of Europe, the continent's 47-member state democracy and rights watchdog, warns that sex selective abortions have led to boys outnumbering girls 112 to 100 — out of sync with the biological standard sex ratio at birth of 104-106 males to every 100 females.
Sex selective abortions — and in earlier times infanticide — have been cited as an indicator for skewed sex ratios in some Asian nations where tradition prefers sons. United Nations figures show China, India and Vietnam have the biggest imbalance, but the Council of Europe warns that the practice has spread to Europe — and has singled out Albania, Armenia, Azerbaijan and Georgia.
“Traditionally Albanian families have favoured boys over girls for two main reasons: the inheritance of the family name and the prospect of boys growing up to become breadwinners,” a 2005 report by the UN Development Programme (UNDP) said.
“It is a mentality that has remained,” said Aferdita Onuzi, a noted anthropologist here. “In certain regions a girl is sometimes seen as a heavy burden.”It is also a personal nightmare for women like Roza. “Last time, my husband almost killed me, he became violent when he found out that I could not give him a son, and my mother-in-law also,” the young woman said.
Her husband erupted in fury when he heard another girl was on its way, threatening to chase his wife and daughters from his home. “Are you sure?” he screamed at the doctor. “In our family we have only boys.”
Albania legalised abortion on the eve of the communist regime's fall in the 1990s. It is allowed until the 12th week of pregnancy. After that, “therapeutic” abortions can only be performed if three different doctors have assessed a case and given the go-ahead.
While sex selection as a reason for abortion is expressly forbidden, there are no specific sanctions for breaching the law, local rights groups said.
Since 2002, the availability of foetal sex screening has made it a frequent
method for choosing the sex of one's child, according to these sources.
At only some 15 euros ($20), an ultrasound is within the reach of most budgets. And abortions, which cost around 150 euros in a private clinic, are much cheaper than going through an in vitro fertilisation process to sort sperm to ensure a male, which can run into thousands of euros.
Last month, the parliamentary assembly of the Council of Europe (PACE) adopted a resolution stating that prenatal sex selection has reached “worrying proportions” in Albania.—AFP