Story time: The reward of patience
It was the moment I had dreamt of since a very young age — getting admission to a good university of my choice. It’s a time when every student experiences mixed feelings, and I was no exception.
I had just finished my 12th grade exams and was done with the practical exams as well. I was now searching for a university that offered the programme I wanted. However, living in a small town, there weren’t many good universities located nearby for that specific programme. Many suggested I move to Karachi for better options, but that wasn’t possible at the time. With no clear options, I felt stressed and worried about my future.
Meanwhile, several relatives and family members were pressuring me to pursue a degree in medicine. Having zero interest in medicine, I firmly refused, and this back-and-forth went on for about a week or two.
It was just another random day when I was chatting with my friends, and one of them mentioned a university opening a new branch in my city. To my surprise, it offered the exact programme I had been looking for. Even more exciting, it was the same university I had dreamt of attending, but couldn’t because it was in a different city. Thrilled, I quickly gathered more details, applied immediately and soon received the date and time for the admission test and interview. Overjoyed, I began preparing myself with full enthusiasm.
A few days later, the big day finally arrived. Stepping into the university I once thought was out of reach felt surreal and was a huge deal for me. After completing all the formalities and taking my admission test, I was asked to wait for my turn for the interview. Sitting there, nervousness consumed me as I worried about the possible questions I might be asked.
Suddenly, I heard someone call my name, snapping me out of my thoughts. Realising it was my turn, I quickly gathered myself mentally and walked in for the interview. Though I stuttered a bit at first due to nerves, I soon realised it wasn’t as intimidating as I had imagined.
During my interview, I was asked about my age and birthday, and that’s when I realised I might face some issues with the admission process. However, I held on to hope and moved forward with the support of the university faculty.
As the process continued, I encountered one problem after another, requiring multiple visits to the campus and countless questions by the faculty. It was time-consuming and frustrating, but gradually, every issue was resolved.
Finally, all I was waiting for was my offer letter. Though it took longer than expected, one day, out of nowhere, I received it, just a day or two before my classes were set to start. I was on cloud nine, overwhelmed with excitement and nervousness. But as they say, “All’s well that ends well.”
I eventually secured admission to my desired university. In these modern times, people often lose faith or forget the importance of patience, waiting for the right time and opportunity. I understand how difficult it can be, especially when it feels like everything is slipping away. However, these are precisely the moments when one must hold on to patience the most. I know it’s easier said than done, but from my personal experience, it truly is the only way to overcome any challenge.
Published in Dawn, Young World, January 11th, 2025