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LAHORE: A woman set her daughter to fire for marrying the man of her choice here on Wednesday, police said. The 18-year-old girl died on the spot.
The victim, a resident of Mast Iqbal Road, had eloped with a man she liked and who her family disapproved of, said Station House Officer (SHO) Sheikh Hammad Akhtar.
Two days before the incident, the family coaxed the deceased to come back home on the pretext that they will send her off with their consent. However, when once she returned, her mother doused her with petrol and set her alight.
Police claim the victim's mother, while professing her crime, admitted to pouring petrol on her daughter and then torching her.
The police shifted the girl's body to a mortuary and arrested her mother.
Second Division Superintendent Police Ibadat Nisar said the deceased girl's brother, who had arrived from Dubai, has been missing since the incident happened, and police is looking for him.
There has been no mention of the victim's husband since her death.
Earlier this month, a 19-year-old school teacher was set on fire in Murree for refusing to marry a man twice her age.
Last month, police arrested 13 members of a local tribal council who allegedly strangled a local girl and set her body on fire for helping one of her friends elope.
The charred body of 17-year-old Ambreen Riasat was found in a burned van in the tourist resort of Donga Gali on April 29.
Nearly 1,000 women are killed each year in Pakistan in so-called “honour killings” for allegedly violating conservative norms on love and marriage.
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Jun 08, 2016 02:58pm
Shame! a rotten society not worth living in.
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Jun 08, 2016 03:01pm
I cannot imagine how a parent or sibling does this to their own family member. This idea of honour is corrupted beyond the worst nightmare.
There is a simple truth - no-one should have the right to physically harm anyone whether they are 'innocent' or 'guilty', stranger or relation, Muslim or non-Muslim, Pakistani or Foreigner. The only time where this may be permitted is under the law and by the state and even then most enlightened societies do not do this.
It all starts in a small way when society or religious so called scholars can justify 'lightly beating your wife' - you condone attacking someones human rights. No-one has the right to do this - not a husband to a wife or a parent to a child - these should be universal.
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Jun 08, 2016 03:03pm
Horrendous!
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Jun 08, 2016 03:03pm
Any religious minded person can never do such acts. Mother kills her own daughter out of ignorance. Very sad indeed
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Jun 08, 2016 03:06pm
Now the CM Shabaz will take video notice from London and issue instructions.
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Jun 08, 2016 03:11pm
It's our leaders where is the country's law
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Jun 08, 2016 03:27pm
@Pathetic And only instruction and no action.
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Jun 08, 2016 03:31pm
Zak, hopefully this is nothing to do with India, America, Isreil and more importantly J&K
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Jun 08, 2016 03:35pm
Another opportunity for the 'liberals' to make noise.@oregata
Shame on You! its not a liberal conspiracy that led to this mother killing her own daughter........
All that "We" "Liberals" of this world want is to follow the principle of "live and let live" ....its your "ilk" that has a problem!
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Jun 08, 2016 03:35pm
This is what happens when we as a society lack both civil and religious education. No where in Islam marrying out of choice is forbidden. This is a cultural stigma that is killing our society. Majority of Pakistanis shape their lives according to their culture instead of the religon. It should be the other way around.
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Jun 08, 2016 03:46pm
A society far from religion and humanity tribal culture and stone age rituals drive our society they have nothing to do with either religion and normal human norms
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Jun 08, 2016 03:54pm
@oregata "Another opportunity for the 'liberals' to make noise" very pathetic instead of condemning the loss of an human life you choose to ridicule liberals this is simply very sick
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Jun 08, 2016 04:01pm
Wake up!!! Dale with it like human beings. Not Muslim or Pakistani or whatever!!! Eternal Peace to the unfortunate victim!!!
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Jun 08, 2016 04:01pm
Shakes me to the core. How can someone do it?
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Jun 08, 2016 04:02pm
@oregata Is that all that worries you?
Loss of Human life, complete lack of Values, sad state of society none of that matters? really!!!
Thanks for sharing how "non-liberal" see these events. Now we know how void of any sense and intellect are the "non-liberals".
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Jun 08, 2016 04:06pm
At least the torturer in this case was not a man!
Otherwise we will see an endless line of feminists coming out to condemn the male-dominated society, extolling the vices of hardships women endure at the hands of the patriarchal society!
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Jun 08, 2016 04:09pm
This is we brainy humans who does all such cruelties.
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Jun 08, 2016 04:17pm
now is this due to a patriachial society as feminists would say, all men and women are equally responsible for this rotten society
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Jun 08, 2016 04:19pm
@Mahmood so this makes what you said not true?! what do you mean |at least"? you are 'happy' that it was a woman? yes, women are also barbaric in this society. and also educated people. like yourself.
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Jun 08, 2016 04:19pm
some people still live in the midevil times.
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Jun 08, 2016 04:30pm
@zainab My point exactly. Thank you for acknowledging it.
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Jun 08, 2016 04:34pm
O yes! Issue is not the people who kill their daughters in 'honour killing' but Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy who raised her voice on international forum.
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Jun 08, 2016 04:44pm
@Voice of Reason : All of this is right only on paper but, disobedience and rejection of parents' rights by the children are creating such ugly and insane incidents. We must have proper education, upbringing and right counselling of our children at right times, for nipping such evils in the bud.
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Jun 08, 2016 05:15pm
that happens in punjab and interior sindh.
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Jun 08, 2016 05:16pm
@M.Saeed - I disagree. As a parent of 2, all I can do is teach my children what I believe is right or wrong BUT I understand their views will be different to mine, just as my beliefs are different to my parents - that is life, otherwise we would never progress.
Under no circumstances, whatever my children do, could I hurt them - now that would be the greatest evil on earth.
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Jun 08, 2016 05:21pm
where is humanity gone? Imagine a 1000 women going through this each year and no effort by the gov't to do anything about it. What's wrong with this society?
Swift action and capital punishment is needed. Not clemency?
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Jun 08, 2016 05:27pm
What a sick twisted culture of death...there is no honor in these brutal murders
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Jun 08, 2016 06:02pm
A young and beautiful life wasted because of ignorance and fake prestige. How can a mother be so cruel it's beyond me. RIP dear
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Jun 08, 2016 06:10pm
No wonder the population is moving out in droves. Who wants to live in a hell-hole where people are shot for mobile phones and girls are murdered for trying to live a decent life.
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Jun 08, 2016 06:15pm
Sorry young lady, have no words but, everyone has lost his/her mind.
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Jun 08, 2016 06:23pm
Once the kid reaches the legal age (i.e. 18 years), he/she becomes an adult and his/her actions should not have any bearing on the parents whatsoever. This concept of blaming the whole family for ones action instead of the person who committed the act in Pak society is the reason for the thought that one needs to defend family honor because the rationale behind such actions is that what the people will say now, the whole family name is now ruined and everyone in the family is/will be looked down upon now.
If somehow Pak society can be educated to the fact that do not blame or hold hostage the whole family for ones action then and only then things will begin to change.
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Jun 08, 2016 06:26pm
@Junaid
Agree 100%
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Jun 08, 2016 06:35pm
This is a lesson for all girls out there. If you are bold enough to run and elope, then do not give in to your parents please to come back. They will harm you. Accept it.
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Jun 08, 2016 06:52pm
Such incidents keep happening because the law and our leaders tolerate it. The law must be toughened, be clear and be applied strictly. A segment of our society needs to come out of darkness. These acts by some ignorants are shameful and are an embarrassment to the whole country.
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Jun 08, 2016 06:56pm
Our religious clerics, mullahas and imams have to take a stand on this particular issue. They need to explain to our public that, our prophet has said that "a woman can marry of her own choice". Public needs to hear from religious leaders and not from the government.
It is permissible in islam for a young girl to marry a man she likes. There is no shame or disrespect for the family.
I don't know why our clerics don't say anything about it.
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Jun 08, 2016 07:08pm
Really sad.
Young people are emotional. Sometimes they do things at a whim. They need to be guided and helped, and always forgiven.
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Jun 08, 2016 07:32pm
There's no need for women's protection bill?!
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Jun 08, 2016 07:42pm
@Ahsan Gul Wrong, my friend. Please keep religion and the so called Mullahs/religious scholars out of it. The need of the hour is promulgation of correct laws and then strengthening the laws and their enforcement.
Please do not give undue importance to these Mullahs as they are not above the law. The Mullahs are already out of control and it just gives them a big head.
Fight to force the government to invest in education, parliament to enact correct laws, the judiciary to enforce the laws and police to implement the laws. Take advantage of the power of vote and punish those representative who do not uphold the law
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Jun 08, 2016 07:49pm
Uneducated people. They please their relatives more than own family.
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Jun 08, 2016 07:51pm
@Joshi Very nice comments Mr. Joshi.
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Jun 08, 2016 08:07pm
Signs of a slowly morally sinking society.
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Jun 08, 2016 08:11pm
What do you expect, when government is not willing to spend money on education. We are going to the lowest era of our times. People are turning into animals
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Jun 08, 2016 08:21pm
Do we know the full story before blaming the mother? What if she is trying to protect the son who is missing? The truth is not fully told yet.
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Jun 08, 2016 08:25pm
That's what happens when women are treated as possessions and not human beings.
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Jun 08, 2016 08:53pm
@Ali jee where are the people family friend neighbor who are closed to these people. Enough stop critisizing politicians. The way you jump on blaming politician seem like you are group of people who saw something bad happening instead of stoping you let it happened so you curse government. Play your part be responsible citizen
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Jun 08, 2016 09:15pm
A mother sacrifices her life for her children, but the case is reverse here. How such a primitive society prevailing in Pakistan.
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Jun 08, 2016 09:17pm
My head hangs in shame.
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Jun 08, 2016 09:26pm
@Ahsan Gul " I don't know why our clerics don't say anything about it." - clerics? they are the problem not the solution. The country's degeneration is because of these half knowledge clerics. Did you not see what CII recommends?
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Jun 08, 2016 10:00pm
Is this for real? In what world these people are living in. They need to be educated and guided. Very Sad indeed.
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Jun 08, 2016 10:28pm
And what was the loser husband doing? Watching his new bride burn to death?
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Jun 08, 2016 10:35pm
welcome to secularism. This is what happens when society is not ready for secular ideas but external sources keep pushing un Islamic culture down their throat.
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Jun 08, 2016 10:48pm
We need over hauling of religious and social concepts which can come through secular education. Political and social news these days are depressive beyond limit.
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Jun 08, 2016 11:03pm
There certainly was no paradise under this mother's feet.
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Jun 08, 2016 11:46pm
Medieval behaviour. Civil authorities should put more pressure in Education and civil rights.
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Jun 09, 2016 12:25am
By the way our Mullahs have no say in it for they declaring women being the property of MEN
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Jun 09, 2016 12:48am
A mother setting her own daughter on fire...
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Jun 09, 2016 01:55am
Hard to imagine a mother doing this. Where's the son is what I want to know.
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Jun 09, 2016 01:58am
Nearly a thousand women honor-killed! And that's just the recorded numbers. Extrapolate that back to the country's early years and we have a proper genocide.
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Jun 09, 2016 01:58am
It takes guts to love in this God-forsaken country.
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Jun 09, 2016 02:02am
@Mahmood but shouldn't the feminist come out against their own when they commit such heinous crimes?
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Jun 09, 2016 03:09am
A society where a six year old girl is considered fit enough to marry( a sixty year old guy) but an 18 year old girl cannot dare to choose her life partner!
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Jun 09, 2016 03:23am
Till women get economic freedom, they are, and will be treated as cattle. This is true all over the world, In any society. Only a person standing on his/her feet or able to when needed, will not let anyone treat themselves as someone's property. As percentage of working women rise, these atrocities go down.
The girl was probably treated as a property since she was born. The property was merely disposed off when it got defective. This would be the mindset in the house.
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Jun 09, 2016 07:03am
When will such people realise that they do not own their children? A parent's job is to love, nurture, provide for, and educate their children, until they reach maturity, and are capable of making their own decisions.
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Jun 09, 2016 03:26pm
The biggest injustice to such terrible incidents is to name them"Honour Killing" they should be called as murder and treated like a murder case...
The word "honour" is a cause of concern and may appease the slaughterer...
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Jun 09, 2016 04:53pm
It is disgusting what happens in Pakistan.
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Jun 10, 2016 02:12am
On Children
- Khalil Gibran
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
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