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Super Sis
Confidential to Worried 231
231, at instances like these, it is hard for me or for anyone to give you a sure shot solution as this is a very personal situation. And I would be lying if I said I can exactly gauge the setup and the underlying trouble spots in your household.
There is, however, hope in situations like these, but you must be brave about it and learn to give your trust to someone close; preferably an elder like a first aunt. Confide all that you feel is wrong and don’t hold anything back in this setup. Domestic relations are sensitive areas and lies never help. Especially at this stage, some sort of a decision needs to be taken around your house, either with respect to accommodating the new entrant into your family or with respect to accommodating you young lot so that you are not disturbed by the goings on around you.
In such a situation, a close aunt/uncle would be the best bet because he/she would be close to your folks and would bargain to strike a balanced, healthy setup for you as well as your parents. Meanwhile, you as a vital part of your family must not grow weak or troublesome at any stage. Be conducive to whatever decision is taking shape and supportive towards both your mother as well as your father. Handle the situation rationally, not emotionally because you must keep the long term well-being of your family in mind. Good luck, and tell me how things shape up.
Dear Super Sis,
My problem is that I love a lady X. I have stood with her, sat with her but she doesn’t know me. I want to marry her. Please tell me what to do?
Worried Cancer
WC, you must have noticed that I have chopped your mail super short. Don’t be flattered; I haven’t done this to “properly reply” to any “relevant bits” of your email. This is a move out of sheer respect for our readers and perhaps to save your pathetic face.
For future reference, please do not bother writing to this column. We do not entertain perverted emails or people. As far as I can see, you have some serious problem with your body … who knows, may be you’re mentally ill. Oops … sorry, we can’t do anything about that. I guess it’s a sad ending for you. Adios.
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