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October 17, 2004




Love is an enigma


WITH reference to the article, Love is an enigma (September 26), explaining these four alphabets is not easy.

I want to share the triangular theory in which love is computed in terms of interplay between three independently quantifiable aspects: passion, intimacy and commitment. The intensity of each of three aspects tells how a love relationship can be characterized. If decision/commitment is strong, but intimacy and passion are low then it is the result of ‘empty love’.

Similarly, ‘liking’ is the type of love that results from a degree of intimacy. While passion is the only component that is felt, this means that ‘infatuation’ best describes the relationship. ‘Romantic’ love occurs when there is a balance of passion and intimacy at relatively high levels with little commitment. When all three aspects are more, or less, equally balanced, however, the relationship can be called one of ‘consummate love’.

WAJID NEZAM
Karachi

 

Most important meal


WITH reference to the article Most important meal (September 12), I would like to appreciate the author for highlighting an important aspect of youth-problems in Pakistan.

Being a schoolteacher, I am well aware of the improper eating habits of the young generation. Due to their busy schedules, and late night engagements, many teenagers skip meals or eat very little in the morning. I have often noticed that because of these unhealthy habits, my students were not highly attentive in class and before an hour of class had lapsed, they felt hungry and lost concentration in their studies.

After reading this article I give it as a reading assignment to my students. After they had read it, I discussed it in class and encouraged my students to follow the ideas given in the article about a healthy breakfast. Since my students implemented these suggestions, I am very happy to observe that they are now more attentive and enthusiastic in class and have higher energy levels throughout the day even when they eat a light lunch. Students are performing better by merely altering their eating habits. Therefore I would request all parents to make sure that their children have nutritious breakfast regularly.

NADIA ALI
Karachi

 

Haunted minds and hearts divided


WITH reference to Anjum Niaz’s column, Hearts divided October 3), I heard the Attorney General of Illinois, talk on the touchy issue of 9/11 in Chicago in November, 2001. He was very candid and bold.

He said that no doubt it was an unprecedented national tragedy, but ‘we should not be appalled by the figures of 3000 deaths in a country where more than 24,000 are killed each year in social strifes’.

Then he quoted cases of overreaction resulting in mistreatment and manhandling of innocent Muslims by fanatic and obsessed Americans. He advised all to act with balance of mind and not go mad by being against an entire community just by crazy conduct of a few fanatics. While answering a question he also said that he, personally was against institution of military courts.

M SALEEM CHAUDHRY
Karachi

 

Mahmood and Ayaz perform Umra


WITH reference to Amar Jaleel’s column, Mahmood and Ayaz perform Umra (October 3), the servant by option, performs specific jobs with specific compensation. The slave on the other hand, is the possession of the master. However, Islam discourages this practice, abhorring the institution. That is why, slaves were either absorbed in the society or given freedom.

It was the treatment accorded by Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) to the slaves that they became household members of a Muslim family. Some of the slaves distinguished themselves and some even rose to the position of kings and monarchs.

RAFIQUE AHMED SIDIKI
Karachi



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