Edhi's lost boys reunite with families

Updated Jul 23, 2013 06:24pm
Taj bibi reunites with her grandchild, Zeeshan Ali, after six years. — AP photo.
Taj bibi reunites with her grandchild, Zeeshan Ali, after six years. — AP photo.
Runaway boy Naveed Khan talks to his father on the phone while waiting to go to his hometown in Peshawar. — AP Photo.
Runaway boy Naveed Khan talks to his father on the phone while waiting to go to his hometown in Peshawar. — AP Photo.
Officials search for the family of a lost child, Shan, in the suburbs of Islamabad, Pakistan. — AP Photo.
Officials search for the family of a lost child, Shan, in the suburbs of Islamabad, Pakistan. — AP Photo.
Runaway or lost children from cities wait at the Islamabad Edhi centre  to reach their homes and families. — AP Photo.
Runaway or lost children from cities wait at the Islamabad Edhi centre to reach their homes and families. — AP Photo.
Lost child Shan, who claims to belong to a gypsy family enquires on the whereabouts of his family to a nomad family living in the suburbs of Islamabad. — AP Photo.
Lost child Shan, who claims to belong to a gypsy family enquires on the whereabouts of his family to a nomad family living in the suburbs of Islamabad. — AP Photo.

RAWALPINDI: The boy remembered a garage where he used to help his uncle repair motorbikes. Walking home one night, he got lost and was picked up by the police. Now, more than six years later, he was headed home again.

When 15-year-old Zeeshan Ali showed up on the mechanic's doorstep, the garage owner recognized him and took him to a nearby street where the boy's family still lives.

There, as rickshaws and motorcycles noisily passed by and bystanders stopped to stare, Zeeshan was reunited with his grandmother, Taj Bibi, who took him into her arms and sobbed.

The emotional reunion was the work of Pakistan's Edhi Foundation, the country's most well-known philanthropic organization, based in Karachi.

Officials from Edhi have been on a cross-country bus tour to find the families of 50 of the boys living at one of their facilities in Karachi that takes care of lost, abandoned and runaway children.

Zeeshan's grandmother said she never lost hope, despite the tears. ''We wept for him. We looked for him everywhere. We searched for him everywhere. Then, I started consoling my son and I told him that my grandson will come back one day,'' she said, with one arm wrapped around Zeeshan.

The overwhelmed boy could do little more than cry and say he was happy to be home. The cross-country bus was the brainchild of Abdul Sattar Edhi, Pakistan's most famous philanthropist who helps orphans, drug addicts, the elderly, abandoned newborns, and lost or runaway children.

The wizened humanitarian and his wife run several facilities in Karachi and other cities across the country. The bus ride is meant to bring boys who had been sheltered by the Edhi Foundation to a place where they once lived. The hope is that once there, they recognize the surroundings –or someone recognizes them.

It was the second time the organisation has attempted a cross-country reunification. During the first bus tour, in 2008, 48 of the 55 boys on board were handed back to their parents during a 10-day trip, said Anwar Kazmi, an official at Edhi's Karachi office.

The bus this time left Karachi with 50 children. By Monday, 41 of them had been reunited with their families, and they were on their last stop – Quetta – before returning to Karachi. The foundation has little to go on except the boys' memories.

Zeeshan remembered a garage where his uncle worked in Rawalpindi. Once the bus got to the city, they drove around and he was able to recognize what seemed like the right garage. The owner of the garage wasn't there but one of the workers took Zeeshan to the owner's house nearby. From there, the owner called Zeeshan's uncle and then guided him to his family's home. Zeeshan said he had tried to tell the police when he was first picked up that he lived in Rawalpindi but he said they didn't listen and instead sent him to an Edhi office in Lahore.

By then, he said he was so angry and afraid that he didn't say anything and was eventually sent to an Edhi home in Karachi. He believes he was about eight or nine when he was picked up but no one seems to know for sure. The children come to the Edhi Foundation through various routes. Many are found on the street by bystanders or police, or are dropped off by poor families who can't afford to take care of them. Some are runaways, and don't necessarily have the happiest memories to return to.

About seven years ago, Ramzan Ali ran away from his home in Quetta, the capital of the southern province of Baluchistan, escaping a father who had ''a short temper.''

''He used to beat me every day because of some mistakes or without any reason,'' said the 14-year-old. But he said he's ready to go back despite his bad memories because he misses his family.

Stories like Ramzan's highlight the difficulties inherent in figuring out what is the best future for these young children. Edhi officials say the boys have all volunteered to go back, and they don't force anyone.

Amanullah, who is in charge of the children's section at the foundation's offices in Karachi, says they don't want to return children to abusive homes, though even those families are usually overjoyed to have their children back.

There is little to no government oversight for organisations like Edhi that fill the gap where the country's cash-strapped government services leave off. Pakistan has few options to take care of lost or abandoned children, who are often seen begging at street corners and washing car windows for spare change.

Authorities acknowledge that organisations like Edhi fill a valuable role in a country with widespread poverty and rising population. The head of the Pakistani government organisation, Baitul Mal, which is responsible for caring for the country's neediest, said he has no problems with the bus trip – as long as it's returning children for whom it's safe to go back, such as those who were abducted or ran away to find a job to help take care of their family. ''This is a good job, and I think it shoul be done," said Tariq Khurshid Malik.

The organisers on the Edhi Foundation's bus say it isn't always possible to reunite children with their families. The story of Abdul Samad shows just how difficult it can be.

The eight-year-old remembered his father's name and that he lived in a town outside of Islamabad near two mountains and a petrol station.

When he and the Edhi officials got there, Abdul recognized the neighborhood and even guided them to a well where the family used to draw water.

They questioned neighbors who vaguely remembered a family who lived in some huts near the road. One person thought the family was now selling milk near the bazaar, but none of the leads panned out.

In the end, officials decided to leave Abdul at the Edhi Foundation's Islamabad shelter, hoping the search for his family would continue.

As the bus moved on, Abdul wiped tears from his eyes.

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mehreen
Jul 23, 2013 07:01pm

I am wiping the tears from my eyes after reading this. I guess raising a child is the hardest job anyone can do.

Raja
Jul 23, 2013 07:47pm

Private services be these related to profit or non-profit almost always surpass those that are run by government, especially in the long run.

Get the government out of everything, from food, to providing education to security and see the rapid changes that take place. The idea of a socialist state is beginning to erode as more and more government organizations come to a halt due to incompetence, nepotism and lack of direct competition. It's competition and the need to survive for any business that leads to the 'invisible hand' that ends up being more beneficial for users of the services provided.

Long live the Edhi foundation.

Raja

Adnan
Jul 23, 2013 07:46pm

WOW ...Incredible Ideas with honest efforts produce good for all. Salam to Edhi.. JazakAllah khair

Baidar Bakhat
Jul 23, 2013 08:40pm

What can I say about the man, we call Edhi? Gem of a person, Pride of Pakistan. His every act put tears in my eyes and prayers come out of my lips. But honestly I myself feel that my prayers, when for a man (family) of such stature, are too little. Long live Edhi sab and God bless you for the countless act of kindness towards your fellow human beings. Thank you.

Sania
Jul 23, 2013 09:45pm

Its foolish and utter ignorance to hit a child and to think that he or she may understand and get the matter resolved . They are a gift from Allah and should be raised in a way , so that they become independent , wise and serving citizens of the society !

RaheemuddinAhmad Ahmad
Jul 24, 2013 12:28am

All praise to Edhi Foundation for their humanitarian work of locating families of lost children. Our popular TV channels like GEO, ARY, Duniya and others can come forward to help these unfortunate children return to their families. This is the least they do to help, instead of transmitting news of a son born in the British royal family. I don't think many of us are interested in the news item.

Ahmed
Jul 24, 2013 01:29am

Great work by Edhi Foundation.

Touseef
Jul 24, 2013 01:47am

Look like Edhi is receiving God's grace by the bus load... Edhi Saheb Thank you for being born in Pakistan.

Khizr
Jul 24, 2013 02:08am

May God keep Abdus Sattar & Bilqees Edhi's mission going beyond their life span. JazakAllahKhair Edhi Saheb, Bilqees saheba, you are very blessed people. I hope your passion is picked up by team. Pakistan needs it. The world needs it. My well wishes and prayers for all the Edhi Foundation workers, volunteers and donors that have kept this ray of hope going in Pakistan. Keep up the good work.

AbbasToronto
Jul 24, 2013 04:32am

Great work. Allah will reward Edhi handsomely.

Yousuf
Jul 24, 2013 04:36am

May Allah help them (us) all. I cannot fathom spending one day without seeing my mothers face or talking to her on the phone when I am away. Edhi is doing an excellent job and my prayers are always with him and his organization.

non-doctor
Jul 24, 2013 05:04am

Excellent work

Rana
Jul 24, 2013 05:40am

Mr. Edhi has done a great service for the children and people of our country through Edhi Foundation. My God bless Mr. Edhi and reunite all these children with their families. Thank you Mr. Edhi for your love and dedicated service to our country. You are the best. My God give us all the courage to follow your footsteps.

sehsan
Jul 24, 2013 09:26am

Mr. Abdul Sittar Ehdi is a genuine "ASHABUL YAMEEN". I wish all these so called militants and Pakistani Politicians could learn something from him.

Shafaqat Ali
Jul 24, 2013 11:38am

God bless the entire team, you are doing a great job. Only Allah can reward such great acts. Really feel happy for the boys reuniting with their families and seriously hope that all parents get their lost beloved children. Only we can make this country a better place to live. Join hands for better future.

Shahid
Jul 24, 2013 08:37pm

Edhi Saheb and his team . I have no words to praise them . They are doing excellent job and you all are the best .

Rabia
Jul 24, 2013 08:48pm

May God bless Edhi and all his workers. What a great job they're doing.

Syed Ismail
Jul 25, 2013 11:01am

Only the Private Sector and the People Can solve our problems. The solution is little government.