This litany of "Pakistan must do more" should stop. Pakistanis are getting sick and tired of it. Every other day, you have a US official or an Afghan leader saying Pakistan must do more - to uproot training camps for militants, to stop terrorism or to reform madressahs, depending on what is the dish of the day and the place where the statement is being made.
Pakistan is described as a valuable ally in the 'war on terror' and President Pervez Musharraf singled out for praise, as if he is working individually and apart from the rest of the official apparatus, including the military.
Yet there are still these daily homilies about more vigorously pursuing terrorists and doing more. A couple of things must first be got out of the way. Pakistan has rendered itself open to lecturing because of its earlier alignment with, and total backing of, the Taliban and its messing about with militancy in Kashmir.
The so-called U-turn did come about under international pressure, and so it is now assumed in Washington and other western capitals that the pressure must be publicly kept up to keep us in line.
So it is actually the folly of our earlier policies whose cost we have to pay in terms of rebukes and exhortations. Our reputation as a breeding ground for extremism has not been entirely unjustly earned.
Second, we need to crack down on militancy in all its forms for our own sake. We have seen the terrible damage inflicted on our political, social and civil society structures by encouraging and tolerating such trends.
There can be no two opinions about the need to move ahead quickly to a more democratic, liberal and inclusive dispensation. Having said this, it should also be understood that this is our problem and we must sort it out.
Constant badgering on this score is counter-productive. It has begun to irritate even liberal sections of society. When America itself needed to do more, it didn't - for instance, by balking at sending its ground troops for deployment when it attacked Afghanistan and by leaving the task to the Northern Alliance.
Then it quickly forgot Afghanistan and attacked Iraq. More than mere irritation, western statements of this kind play into the hands of militants. They provide them with a handle to brand any action against terrorism as US-inspired, the Wana operation being an instance in point, and the way it has been botched up makes criticism come more easily.
Rather than strengthening the government, the statements make the government self-conscious and even more hesitant. The immediate inclination is to appease the right, both in the political spectrum and within the establishment itself.
This has led to innumerable distortions in governance, wrecked normal political processes and permitted the religious parties and elements sympathetic to them to call the shots.
If our western benefactors were a little more thoughtful and circumspect about it, perhaps the struggle against reactionary trends in our society - which America at one time loved dearly to promote - would be easier to wage.